Our Flagship Program

The "My Best Self" Project

An empirically-designed, Torah-grounded curriculum that builds self-compassion, body acceptance, and resilience in Jewish Orthodox girls.

Already in use at 75+ schools across the U.S. and internationally.

76%
of children who participated in body-confidence programs felt better about themselves.
Prevention works
The Program

Three audiences, one mission

The most effective prevention reaches girls, parents, and educators together. The My Best Self Project is designed to be facilitated by your school's own trusted educators or mental health staff — not outside speakers.

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Girls

Hands-on, stand-alone interactive workshops at key middle and high school milestones — 8th, 10th, and 12th grade. Four one-hour sessions per grade, ideally one week apart.

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Parents

Seminar on understanding body image and eating disorders, avoiding common pitfalls, creating a health-based focus at home, and identifying when a daughter is struggling.

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Educators

The prevalence of body image and eating disorder issues in our schools, how to identify and address weight stigma, signs and symptoms of eating disorders, and how to create healthier classroom spaces.

The Girls' Curriculum

Four workshops per grade, three grades

Focus: Our innate value, self-compassion, thoughts and feelings, the appearance ideal, body image, and identifying personal strengths.

Workshop 1
  • Our innate worth
  • Self-compassion
  • Understanding the mitzvah of “Veahavta L’reicha Kamocha”
Workshop 2
  • Thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
  • What is in my control and what is not
  • We are alike, but different
Workshop 3
  • The Appearance Ideal
  • Body image
  • Finding balance
Workshop 4
  • The Torah perspective on beauty
  • Identifying our strengths
  • Self-care vs. selfish

Each workshop is one hour. 4 sessions per grade. Ideally scheduled one week apart. Total: 12 hours over middle & high school.

Anchored in Torah

Built on Rambam's foundation

Maintaining a healthy and whole body is an integral part of one's Divine service.
Rambam — Hilchos Deos, Chapter 4

The My Best Self Project draws from Gemorah, Rishonim, and contemporary Hashkafic and Halachic authorities, combining these teachings with empirical research on mental and emotional health and their impact on eating disorder prevention. Reviewed and endorsed by prominent Rabbonim.

Rabbinical Endorsements

Reviewed and endorsed by prominent Rabbonim

Endorsement

Rabbi Shmuel Irons

Rosh Kolel · Kollel Avreichim Detroir

Oak Park, MI

Rabbi Shmuel Irons, Rosh Kolel

Kollel Avreichim Detroir, Oak Park, MI

Letter from Rabbi Shmuel Irons, Oak Park, MI
Endorsement

Rabbi Gershon Miller

Director · Yeshivas Beth Yehudah

Southfield, MI

Rabbi Gershon Miller, Director

Yeshivas Beth Yehudah, Southfield, MI

Letter from Rabbi Gershon Miller, Southfield, MI
From Participating Schools

What schools are saying

Recommendation

Mrs. Chana R. Twerski

Principal · Bnos Yaakov Elementary

Lakewood, NJ

Mrs. Chana R. Twerski, Principal

Bnos Yaakov Elementary, Lakewood, NJ

Recommendation

Mrs. Tova Rubin

Extra-curricular Coordinator · Bnos Yaakov Elementary School

Lakewood, NJ

Mrs. Tova Rubin, Extra-curricular Coordinator

Bnos Yaakov Elementary School, Lakewood, NJ

Recommendation

Mrs. S. Kaplan

Menaheles · Maharsha Beish Ya'akov High School

Johannesburg, South Africa

Mrs. S. Kaplan, Menaheles

Maharsha Beish Ya'akov High School, Johannesburg, South Africa

Recommendation

Mrs. Tzorti Steinmetz, LCSW

Junior High Student Advisor · Joan Dachs Bais Yaakov

Chicago, IL

Mrs. Tzorti Steinmetz, LCSW, Junior High Student Advisor

Joan Dachs Bais Yaakov, Chicago, IL

Who's Using It

75+ schools and counting

Schools across the United States and internationally have partnered with Atzmi to help their girls discover their Best Self.

US schools map
Bring It to Your School

What it takes — and how to start

The Investment

Less than you'd expect

  • 4 hours per grade per year of classroom time. 12 hours total across three grades.
  • No curriculum cost. All presentation materials, facilitator notes, and training videos are provided free.
  • ~$10 per student for workshop journals. Travel expenses if Dr. Forta speaks in person.
  • Your own staff facilitates — an in-house educator or mental health professional. Atzmi provides full online training.
How to Start

Four steps to launch

  1. 1
    Contact us
    Use the button below to reach out.
  2. 2
    Initial consultation
    We explain the program and help you identify the right in-house facilitator.
  3. 3
    Prepare
    We ship workshop materials directly and grant access to all presentations and prep videos.
  4. 4
    Schedule the workshops
    4 one-hour sessions per participating grade, ideally a week apart, plus the parent and educator seminars.
Contact us to get started
Go Deeper

Want to learn more?

Curriculum samples, facilitator guides, workshop materials, and full program details are available in the Atzmi Members Area — free to join, no application required.

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Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Atzmi is not a treatment program. Atzmi provides educational programs dedicated to prevention and the development of emotional skills and tools.

Yes, you can choose not to do all 3 parts of the program. However, for optimal outcomes and success it is recommended that all 3 prongs be implemented.

Thanks to the generosity of donors and sponsors, there is no charge for our My Best Self Project curriculum. Nor is there a fee for having Dr. Forta speak to the parents and teachers.

The only cost is for student materials which is $10 per student.

If you want Dr. Forta to speak in person, then you will need to cover travel expenses.

Absolutely.

No. Ideally, the facilitator should be someone who is “in-house”.

If your class periods are one hour, then 4 sessions. If your class periods are 45 minutes, then 5–6 sessions will be needed.

Yes, self-paced video online training is provided.

Using the order form on the Members Area of our website.

Yes, for Workshops II and III only.

Yes.

Yes — see the What schools are saying section above.

Yes — see the Rabbinical Endorsements section above.

Once you've completed training and have a 15-minute meet with Dr. Forta, you will be given access to those slides.

See the Who's using it section above for the live map.

See the curriculum tabs in the “Program” section above.

All of the details are in our Members Area, there is no cost to sign up, use the link above.

Ready to bring it to your school?

We'd love to hear from you. Most schools that reach out are running the program within weeks — not months.